Parents: Is Your Teen College Ready?

Designing Your College Journey: Admission Assistance & Success Tips with Shellee Howard and Elliot Felix

Episode Notes

In this insightful conversation between Shelley Howard and Elliot Felix, Felix—shares valuable guidance on preparing students not just to enter college but to thrive throughout their college journey and beyond. He emphasizes the importance of community, support systems, and aligning coursework with career goals to maximize the college experience. Elliot breaks down complex academic research into practical strategies, such as setting process-based goals and finding mentors, which significantly improve student outcomes. He candidly addresses the evolving value of college in today’s economic landscape, highlighting that success is not guaranteed but can be increased by purposeful engagement and preparation. Elliot also explores how families can decide if college is the right path for their child, emphasizing alternative educational routes and realistic planning. His two books, How to Get the Most Out of College and the forthcoming The Connected College, aim to empower students, families, and institutions to foster environments conducive to student success. Ultimately, Felix advocates a design-thinking approach to life and college, encouraging students to prototype their decisions through exploration, research, and mentorship.

Highlights

• Elliot Felix emphasizes the critical difference between getting into college and truly succeeding once there.
• Students need a sense of belonging and community to thrive in college.
• Aligning coursework with career goals through real projects creates meaningful learning experiences.
• Process-based goals (e.g., completing tasks) outperform vague performance-based goals (e.g., earning a grade).
• Finding mentors doubles the likelihood students will value their education and succeed professionally.
• College’s worth depends largely on how students engage, not just on where they attend.
• Viewing college and life decisions as a “prototype” allows for flexible learning and growth.

Key Insights

• Process-Based vs. Performance-Based Goals: Elliot underscores research from MIT that process-based goals—clear, actionable steps—are far more effective for student success than vague performance goals tied to outcomes. This approach helps students focus on controllable behaviors, reduces anxiety, and builds momentum.
• Sense of Belonging as Foundation for Success: A strong peer community is essential. Feeling connected to a group helps students engage more deeply, access support, and overcome challenges, which boosts retention and graduation rates. Colleges should encourage social and academic integration early.
• Connecting Coursework with Real-World Careers: Elliot highlights the value of projects that simulate or connect to actual career tasks, helping students experiment with potential fields and build relevant experience. This practical application helps make education more relevant and supports future employment.
• Mentorship Is a Game-Changer: Referencing Gallup studies, Elliot points out that students with mentors are twice as likely to feel their education was worth it and to be engaged in their careers. Mentorship provides guidance, networking, and emotional support critical for navigating college and work life successfully.
• Reevaluating the Value and Risk of College: Research shows lifetime earnings can be significantly higher for graduates, but only about 60% of students graduate within six years, making college a risky investment for some. Success hinges on preparation, financial planning, and purposeful engagement rather than blind attendance.
• Expanding the Definition of College: Elliot stresses that college isn’t just four-year universities but also includes community colleges, apprenticeships, and boot camps. Different forms of postsecondary education can suit different students’ needs, avoiding a “one size fits all” mentality.
• Design Thinking and Prototyping Life Choices: Viewing decisions about majors, schools, and careers as prototypes to test and refine reduces pressure and increases adaptability. By encouraging exploration and seeking feedback, students can make more informed choices—ultimately leading to greater success.

This interview offers parents and students practical, research-backed advice to navigate higher education more effectively while promoting a more holistic and nuanced understanding of what it means to be “college ready.” The blend of research, personal stories, and actionable tips provides a roadmap for making college a transformative and worthwhile experience.

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Email: shellee@collegereadyplan.com

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Email: elliot@connectedcollege.org